HOW TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE
There are many things we do, An things we don't do that play a role in our future success in life. I'm gonna share a few Important Concepts with you, Now if you can actually Grasp and understand this Concept that is Scientific Fact, Then Use or implement a strategy to Get control of your Mind, You will become successful in life a lot faster, After that the sky is the limit from then on.
First things first, To be a Success, Is Part your Mindset. Your Day Should begin Early, Mine starts before 6am. It's been proven that our Brains are more Creative an sharper within the first few hours of waking up, So this Means get the important stuff that requires your creativity done during these hours. Blogging, Writing a book, online marketing ECT.
Always Push hard to dominate your Niche/profession, Be the Michael Jordan of "e books" If E-Books are your Niche. You Want to Be an "Authority" in your Field, What that Means is, Your Name or Brand is known by everyone in your Specific industry. As Nike is for Shoes.
Visualizing yourself as the success you want to become Needs to be a Core part of your daily routine an strategy, Now the problem from here is Very real, An you have probably experienced it. I have many times.
As soon as you step out of, Or think out of your comfort an safety zone, An feel a little nervous or doubt, That anxiety sends a Signal to Our brain which then Believes We are in danger. Our Brain then triggers Built in primal instincts made for keeping us alive "survival instinct". This is what Causes us to Procrastinate an Listen to what I call the "Drunk Monkey". Let's say you Need to Call A few prospects for your business "cold calling" But your new to this an get Nervous. The "Drunk Monkey" is that voice in the back of your mind that Says... "You know what? I think you Might be a little bit hungry" Or "Don't you need to go to the bathroom before you make calls?" An you go hmmm "I think I do Need to go to the bathroom", "Excuses to stop you from doing what makes you UNCOMFORTABLE" Well "What makes you Comfortable, Can Kill you" "Uncomfortable Builds You"
This primal safety switch was needed Millions of years ago, It's Purpose, Helping us survive encounters from large predators an such.
How do we stop this trigger?
Create Positive Emotions to connect with your Goals, Act an think as if you have already built a successful business, How would that feel? What would it look like in your life? By doing this your subconsciously programming your mind to help you, As our brains do not no the difference between Real life experience an meditation thoughts of the same thing. This is why Your body can respond to thoughts or memories an trigger anxiety by just thinking about our problems. I'm sure you have heard "Act as if" include "Think as if" Think as if you already achieved it, Create an link Positive Emotions to your Goals.
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Some Simple Advice that Can change your life rather quickly if put to use.
#1 ERASE BULLSHIT SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNTS!
YES, You Did read that Correctly, First why keep scrolling looking at someone else's life that looks so GREAT compared to Yours? Even though its Not there Real Life, People don't post the real an the bad, They post the pretend shit thinking it makes them look Successful and Happy. Quit making yourself feel even Shittier about the situation your in. So get Rid of the Temptations, They waste hours and hours of your Most Valuable asset, “TIME” The one thing you can’t Buy more of. Trade them for platforms that improve your knowledge and creativity, Like TechCrunch an Bloomberg, An If you Need a little something for a here and there guilty pleasure, I Got a little something for you….. Use “Quora” it’s a great for Expanding your Mind, And Get Answers to those questions you dont wanna ask others. Plus it Suits people that have an above Normal Intellectual Drive.
#2 PICK UP A DAMN BOOK!
An actually Open it!
Sad But True, 25% of People did Not read a SINGLE BOOK Last Year!
“A person who won’t read has no advantage over another who (Can’t Read)”
#3 STOP GIVING SO MANY SHITS IN LIFE!
Our Stress Comes from Giving to many “SHITS”
So Stop Giving a Shit in Life, Or at least in undeserving areas, Otherwise I wish you well fighting accelerated aging, All the cholesterol and triglycerides added an traveling in your bloodstream, leading to diabetes, heart disease, depression an soon to follow, early death.
#4 GET IT IN, AT THE GYM!
Going to the Gym is the Best Choice you can make for your health an overall wellbeing, Your self Confidence is gonna Explode, endorphins are released during exercise, Plus your going to feel Fit an Sexy as a Result!
#5 SOCIALIZE WITH SMART PEOPLE!
Get Smart Friends which is a Win Win situation, Smart People challenge your ideas an give you knew ones, Make you see something from a different point of view, Very helpful when strategizing or building a Business. Keep in Mind “You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with”
So Choose Wisely!
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The only thing that will change your life, Change your Business, Change your Money, Change your relationship, Is You Must Raise Your Standard.
The only thing that allows us to change our life long term is when we Raise our Standards. It Means that all of us in life have things that we want, We don't get what we want, We get what we have to have.
What your looking for, An what we are talking about, An what you need, Is self discipline. Self discipline as the very term implies, It comes from the self it comes from within you. It comes from when You Make a Decision, It comes from when you make a decision to be better, A decision to do more, An to be More. One thing all people with self discipline have in common is they Get shit done, They Accomplish things, Which leads to more Success.
What do you know about Michael Phelps, What allowed him to be the very best, It was his Goals, His rituals. Go Study the Guy, Most people who swim have these unbelievable workouts, He did two an three of there sessions a Day. All the other swimmers in the game thought he was insane. You can over train, You can't do that, Its not physically possible they would say, But he had standards, An the rituals to back it up. "If it was easy everybody would be doing it, But If you want something bad enough you will get it, The biggest thing is that you Never give up, I Never have, An No one ever should"
If you don't do the work, If you don't put in the work, like an athlete going to the gym, If you have the ideas but don't integrate them, If you don't show some Self discipline, No Idea will work without you doing the work.
Everyone in the world has a list of things they think they Should Do, I Should Lose Weight, I Should Work Out, I Should Work Harder, I Should, I Should, I Should, The Change happens when Your Should Becomes I Must, Suddenly things that Should Happen Must Happen. When your No longer willing to tolerate something that's when your life changes.
Unless you start taking some New Action thinking Some New Thoughts, Start making some New Conversation, Unless you Have the Guts to Clean out some of the things that are Not Working, An Develop some New Habits an Rituals Nothings Ever Going to Change. The road to Success is through Commitment, An with the Strength to drive through that Commitment When it Gets Hard, An Believe Me it Will Get Hard, An your gonna wanna Quit sometimes, But it will be colored by who you are, An more of who you want to be. You have Only One Life, So Don't Waste It.
SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE HAVE SELF DISCIPLINE
Does your partner represent you as the success you are?
Picking your Mate should be one of the Top 3 if not Number 1 Decision of your life, Remind yourself of this often. The partner You choose will reflect on your character as an individual. Even If I haven't met you, But I met your girl or your wife, Her body language, personality and how she acts around others, Gives Me an idea of you. Lets Hope she's Not flirtatious, Cause that's a sign Your either not providing, She's not satisfied or just your partner doesn't have an ounce of respect for you as a man, An if she has no respect for you that says a lot, Either way it's not how you want to be represented. But it does allow me to get an idea of your character an morals as a Man By choosing her to be your partner in life, So keep that in Mind.
Your Spouse is the Most important Investment you can make in your life, Your spouse should have the ability to compliment your strengths an Back your weakness, If your goal oriented an want to become a success, Your partner Should be like minded to an extent. As i'm sure you all know, Your partner can also be your down fall if your not self disciplined.
So take a Moment an Ask Yourself this, what kind of relationship are your in? How does it make you feel about yourself? Are you Proud to say that's your spouse, Your partner should be a point of pride for you. Back to the type of your relationship, Is it Nutritional, Or is it a toxic unhealthy relationship getting you No where. Does it drain you, Or does it build you up, Does it give you hope for a brighter tomorrow, What about a prosperous an fulfilling future? Ask yourself these questions daily,
An how motivated are you to do something about it?
IS YOUR PARTNER GOOD FOR YOU
DO YOU HAVE A PURPOSE?
From the Moment we are Born, We begin the process of dying. This is a very important aspect we Need to realize an Spend our time wisely. Some of us speed up the process by doing things we know are unhealthy leading to a slow form of suicide. Some don’t have the brain capacity to even realize it, While Others do everything in their power to Prevent it from happening sooner.
Think about this, How many seconds and how many Minutes do we waste doing things that are getting us no were near our goals? How many times do you get through the day an think did I accomplish anything that I set out to do today.
Write down two Goals every morning an if you can accomplish those two things your slowly getting somewhere, Your living for a purpose with a bigger Goal in Mind.
Make time to Build Yourself, One of the Best investments you will ever make is in yourself, Take time to explore, Take time to learn, Research others that you admire an aspire to do as they have done. Everyone sees the fancy car, The nice house that successful people have, What you don't see is the hard work that goes on behind the scenes, The 90hr work weeks they put in for years to achieve those Nice things. Success doesn’t come by accident, You will not just stumble upon success, It is a Very calculated plan, Backed by a conscious decision an a commitment to make the right choices daily. These Choices are what will lead you to a successful life, Making Anything you set your Mind to possible, Anything a Man can Imagine he can achieve.
When your born that's the day that goes on the left side of your tombstone, The day you Die is the Day that goes on the Right. Now the line or dash in between is whats most important, How many lives did you impact, How many people did you touch in a positive manner? Leave a legacy that Nobody can erase, Make sure people know you were here no matter what. When your living for that dash in the middle your gonna remember your “WHY” the why you are here, The reason you get out of bed in the morning, Your reason for pushing yourself past the point of exhaustion, That dash in the middle that's the thing that should push you to be more.
Now Stop what it is your doing, Take a second to write down your “WHY” What are you doing this for? If your “WHY” doesn't make you Cry, Then that’s Not your Why. I’ll say it again, If your “WHY” doesn’t make you Cry, Then that's Not your Why. Your Why should be something so big it moves you, It changes the path of your family tree, It should be so big it changes everything from the way things are in your home to the way you handle your finances, This is your purpose. Think about your passions your desires in life, Think about things that inspire you all the way to the depths of your soul as a human, That is how you find your purpose and your “WHY”. When your passion an your desires come together with your inspiration an you feel a Purpose deep inside of you, That is One of the most important days of your life, That’s the day you realize why you were Born.