The only thing that will change your life, Change your Business, Change your Money, Change your relationship, Is You Must Raise Your Standard.
The only thing that allows us to change our life long term is when we Raise our Standards. It Means that all of us in life have things that we want, We don't get what we want, We get what we have to have.
What your looking for, An what we are talking about, An what you need, Is self discipline. Self discipline as the very term implies, It comes from the self it comes from within you. It comes from when You Make a Decision, It comes from when you make a decision to be better, A decision to do more, An to be More. One thing all people with self discipline have in common is they Get shit done, They Accomplish things, Which leads to more Success.
What do you know about Michael Phelps, What allowed him to be the very best, It was his Goals, His rituals. Go Study the Guy, Most people who swim have these unbelievable workouts, He did two an three of there sessions a Day. All the other swimmers in the game thought he was insane. You can over train, You can't do that, Its not physically possible they would say, But he had standards, An the rituals to back it up. "If it was easy everybody would be doing it, But If you want something bad enough you will get it, The biggest thing is that you Never give up, I Never have, An No one ever should"
If you don't do the work, If you don't put in the work, like an athlete going to the gym, If you have the ideas but don't integrate them, If you don't show some Self discipline, No Idea will work without you doing the work.
Everyone in the world has a list of things they think they Should Do, I Should Lose Weight, I Should Work Out, I Should Work Harder, I Should, I Should, I Should, The Change happens when Your Should Becomes I Must, Suddenly things that Should Happen Must Happen. When your No longer willing to tolerate something that's when your life changes.
Unless you start taking some New Action thinking Some New Thoughts, Start making some New Conversation, Unless you Have the Guts to Clean out some of the things that are Not Working, An Develop some New Habits an Rituals Nothings Ever Going to Change. The road to Success is through Commitment, An with the Strength to drive through that Commitment When it Gets Hard, An Believe Me it Will Get Hard, An your gonna wanna Quit sometimes, But it will be colored by who you are, An more of who you want to be. You have Only One Life, So Don't Waste It.
SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE HAVE SELF DISCIPLINE
Does your partner represent you as the success you are?
Picking your Mate should be one of the Top 3 if not Number 1 Decision of your life, Remind yourself of this often. The partner You choose will reflect on your character as an individual. Even If I haven't met you, But I met your girl or your wife, Her body language, personality and how she acts around others, Gives Me an idea of you. Lets Hope she's Not flirtatious, Cause that's a sign Your either not providing, She's not satisfied or just your partner doesn't have an ounce of respect for you as a man, An if she has no respect for you that says a lot, Either way it's not how you want to be represented. But it does allow me to get an idea of your character an morals as a Man By choosing her to be your partner in life, So keep that in Mind.
Your Spouse is the Most important Investment you can make in your life, Your spouse should have the ability to compliment your strengths an Back your weakness, If your goal oriented an want to become a success, Your partner Should be like minded to an extent. As i'm sure you all know, Your partner can also be your down fall if your not self disciplined.
So take a Moment an Ask Yourself this, what kind of relationship are your in? How does it make you feel about yourself? Are you Proud to say that's your spouse, Your partner should be a point of pride for you. Back to the type of your relationship, Is it Nutritional, Or is it a toxic unhealthy relationship getting you No where. Does it drain you, Or does it build you up, Does it give you hope for a brighter tomorrow, What about a prosperous an fulfilling future? Ask yourself these questions daily,
An how motivated are you to do something about it?
IS YOUR PARTNER GOOD FOR YOU
DO YOU HAVE A PURPOSE?
From the Moment we are Born, We begin the process of dying. This is a very important aspect we Need to realize an Spend our time wisely. Some of us speed up the process by doing things we know are unhealthy leading to a slow form of suicide. Some don’t have the brain capacity to even realize it, While Others do everything in their power to Prevent it from happening sooner.
Think about this, How many seconds and how many Minutes do we waste doing things that are getting us no were near our goals? How many times do you get through the day an think did I accomplish anything that I set out to do today.
Write down two Goals every morning an if you can accomplish those two things your slowly getting somewhere, Your living for a purpose with a bigger Goal in Mind.
Make time to Build Yourself, One of the Best investments you will ever make is in yourself, Take time to explore, Take time to learn, Research others that you admire an aspire to do as they have done. Everyone sees the fancy car, The nice house that successful people have, What you don't see is the hard work that goes on behind the scenes, The 90hr work weeks they put in for years to achieve those Nice things. Success doesn’t come by accident, You will not just stumble upon success, It is a Very calculated plan, Backed by a conscious decision an a commitment to make the right choices daily. These Choices are what will lead you to a successful life, Making Anything you set your Mind to possible, Anything a Man can Imagine he can achieve.
When your born that's the day that goes on the left side of your tombstone, The day you Die is the Day that goes on the Right. Now the line or dash in between is whats most important, How many lives did you impact, How many people did you touch in a positive manner? Leave a legacy that Nobody can erase, Make sure people know you were here no matter what. When your living for that dash in the middle your gonna remember your “WHY” the why you are here, The reason you get out of bed in the morning, Your reason for pushing yourself past the point of exhaustion, That dash in the middle that's the thing that should push you to be more.
Now Stop what it is your doing, Take a second to write down your “WHY” What are you doing this for? If your “WHY” doesn't make you Cry, Then that’s Not your Why. I’ll say it again, If your “WHY” doesn’t make you Cry, Then that's Not your Why. Your Why should be something so big it moves you, It changes the path of your family tree, It should be so big it changes everything from the way things are in your home to the way you handle your finances, This is your purpose. Think about your passions your desires in life, Think about things that inspire you all the way to the depths of your soul as a human, That is how you find your purpose and your “WHY”. When your passion an your desires come together with your inspiration an you feel a Purpose deep inside of you, That is One of the most important days of your life, That’s the day you realize why you were Born.